10:30 am, Sun, March 12, 2023 - JGWhite / FBCA (Psalm 95; Rom 5:1-11; Jn 4:5-42)
Poet John Donne famous wrote No
man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a
part of the main. Yet people keep separating, making life into Us against Them;
Insiders and Outsiders; we’re right, they’re wrong. Be it the difference
between Amherstonians and newcomers from away, happily housed and the unhoused,
mask-wearers and mask not-wearers, or First Baptists and Gospel Light Baptists:
we focus upon differences and separateness.
It could be called Tribalism. A
wonderful, supportive colleague to me, over the past decade, has been retired
Baptist minister John Dickinson, now living back in Ontario. I remember him
speaking of the tribalism of humankind that we just can not get away
from – yet I think this is what John would say the Gospel of Jesus Christ is
all about. Breaking down the barriers between and among people, and God.
The John 4 story of Jesus and the
unnamed ‘woman at the well’ communicates many things; one is the will and the
power of Jesus to break down tribalism. He breaks down ‘us and them.’ By the
end of the story, as He ends up staying a couple extra days in Samaria, the locals
say to each other, “we know that this is truly the Saviour of the world.”
The most famous Bible verse for
evangelical Christians is from John’s previous chapter. “For God so loved the
world that He gave us His only Son…” In the original Greek language, Jesus’
word here for ‘world’ is cosmos. Definitely all people, not to mention
creation.
In chapter 4, Jesus is travelling through Samaria, and meets a local woman at an ancient well, still in use. This scene breaks down some deep barriers between a couple of ‘tribes,’ we could call them. Jesus is a Jew; the woman is a Samaritan. Who are these Samaritans, anyway, and why would they and the Jews have nothing to do with one another?
Maybe you got the hint that, way
back, they and the Jews were all from one family, one faith. They both look to
Father Abraham, and Isaac, and Jacob. As centuries passed, some of the Jews north
in the north remained conservative in some ways. They kept Mount Gerazim as
their holy place. They kept only Genesis, Exodus, Leviticus, Numbers and
Deuteronomy as their scripture. They kept sabbath rules and food regulations
more strictly. Perhaps they were some who did not get captured and taken
away to Babylon in the sixth century BCE. Today, millenia later, the Samaritans
still exist in the Middle East. Two thousand years ago, they and the Jews were not
friends.
So Christ surprised His disciples
by talking so deeply with this woman of Samaria. Meanwhile, they just shopped
for food but had no impact on the city. Jesus was breaking stereotypes. Is that
our ministry today? I notice that First Baptist Halifax declares, on their
website, they are ‘Breaking stereotypes since 1827.’ I see us, at First
Amherst, breaking some stereotypes also, in the name of Christ. What’s next, we
could wonder.
In the conversation of Jesus with
the Samaritan woman, so much is said. Their patriarch, Jacob, gave them the
well, but Christ speaks of flowing water that is of the human spirit, and of
divine origin. The life of God can flow out from anyone.
Jesus seems to know all about
this woman’s complicated and embarrassing love life. Yet he spends time with
her in such a way she is excited and happy and impressed to meet him. She
rushes back into town without her water jug, to tell everyone who she
met. I believe we can be disciples of this Man whose every sentence sounded
like good news.
These two talked about religion:
how and where they worshipped. ‘The time is starting,’ Jesus said, ‘when real
prayer and praise does not depend upon getting the location right.’ We have a long
way to go if we can’t manage to worship together in a place that is not our
same, usual seat we always use.
The woman mentioned that they,
the Samaritans, expected the Anointed One to arrive one day. Their teachings
were surely different from the various Jewish expectations about a Messiah. But
Jesus claims to fulfill the Samaritan hopes also, “I am he.”
We develop listening skills that
are not a matter of the ears, but of the mind and the heart. Breaking down
tribalism, ‘us vs. them’ attitudes, is a spiritual practice, it takes
discipline. And it can happen. Here is one dramatic example. Communication
expert, Marshall Rosenberg, told this story, from a time he was consulting in
the Middle East.
I was presenting Nonviolent
Communication to about 170 Palestinian Muslim men in a mosque at Dheisheh
Refugee Camp in Bethlehem. Attitudes towards Americans at that time were not
favourable. As I was speaking, I suddenly noticed a wave of muffled commotion
fluttering through the audience. “They’re whispering that you are an American!”
my translator alerted me, just as a gentleman in the audience leapt to his
feet. Facing me squarely, he hollered at the top of his lungs, “Murderer!”
Immediately a dozen other voices joined him in chorus: “Assassin!”
“Child-killer!” “Murderer!”
Fortunately, I was able to
focus my attention on what the man was feeling and needing. In this case, I had
some real clues. On the way into the refugee camp, I had seen several empty
tear gas canisters that had been shot into the camp the night before. Clearly
marked on each canister were the words Made
in the U.S.A. I knew that the refugees harbored a lot of anger toward the
United States for supplying tear gas and other weapons to Israel.
I addressed the man who had
called me a murderer:
MBR: Are you angry because you
would like my government to use its resources differently? (I didn’t know
whether my guess was correct—what was critical was my sincere effort to connect
with his feeling and need.)
Man: Damn right I’m angry! You
think we need tear gas? We need sewers, not your tear gas! We need housing! We
need to have our own country!
MBR: So you’re furious and
would appreciate some support in improving your living conditions and gaining
political independence?
Man: Do you know what it’s
like to live here for twenty-seven years the way I have with my family—children
and all? Have you got the faintest idea what that’s been like for us?
MBR: Sounds like you’re
feeling very desperate and you’re wondering whether I or anybody else can
really understand what it’s like to be living under these conditions. Am I
hearing you right?
Man: You want to understand?
Tell me, do you have children? Do they go to school? Do they have playgrounds?
My son is sick! He plays in open sewage! His classroom has no books! Have you
seen a school that has no books!
MBR: I hear how painful it is
for you to raise children here; you’d like me to know that what you want is
what all parents want for their children—a good education, opportunity to play and
grow in a healthy environment…
Man: That’s right, the basics!
Human rights—isn’t that what you Americans call it? Why don’t more of you come
here and see what kind of human rights you’re bringing here!
MBR: You’d like more Americans
to be aware of the enormity of the suffering here and to look more deeply at
the consequences of our political actions?
Our dialogue continued, with
him expressing his pain for nearly twenty more minutes, and me listening for
the feeling and need behind each statement. I didn’t agree or disagree. I
received his words, not as attacks, but as gifts from a fellow human willing to
share his soul and deep vulnerabilities with me.
Once the gentleman felt
understood, he was able to hear me explain my purpose for being in the camp.
And hour later, the same man who had called me a murderer was inviting me to
his home for a Ramadan dinner. (Marshall Rosenberg, Nonviolent Communication,
2003, pp. 13-14)
Jesus challenges us to listen
deeply to another person’s experience, to stop correcting others for a while,
and simply ask our Master for a fresh new view of that we’d not stopped to see
before. And with the Spirit, we have so much flowing water from ourselves to
lovingly give to whomever we meet.
There was a Balinese dancer who
said, “There’s someone out there who needs you. Live your life so that person
can find you.” Perhaps this happens
anew, every single day. Today, you shall be a blessing to someone – even
someone you do not expect. And, thanks be to God, this can happen again, on
Monday. And on Tuesday.
Someone wrote of Abraham Lincoln,
“He makes all mankind just a bit taller.” He is another example of what Christ
seeks to accomplish in every age. Surely this ‘Saviour of the world’ will take
us, break down barriers, dispel stereotypes, improve everyone, and bring people
together in family.
So let us boast, not in being
right, in being wonderful, in being the best. We learn, from Romans 5, to boast
in our hope of sharing what’s good in God, to boast even in suffering to help
others, and boast in Jesus who is actually the way, the truth, and the life.
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